Daphne Rubin-Vega. Actress: Wild Things. Daphne Rubin-Vega was born on 18 November 1968 in Panama City, Panama. She is an actress and producer, known for Wild Things (1998), In the Heights (2021) and Sex and the City - Der Film (2008). She has been married to Tommy Costanzo since September 2002. They have one child.