Ellen Foley. Actress: Eine verhängnisvolle Affäre. Ellen Foley was born on 5 June 1951 in St. Louis, Missouri, USA. She is an actress, known for Eine verhängnisvolle Affäre (1987), Hair (1979) and Cocktail (1988). She has been married to Doug Bernstein since 29 April 1990. They have two children.